Friday, May 21, 2010

A very long hiatus...

It's almost two years since my last post, and plenty (both good and bad) have happened in the interim. The following timeline is a brief summary of my life since the much-cherished Shanghai trip...
  • Started work at PwC on 7 July 2008
  • Graduated from SMU in 13 July 2008
  • Met a whole bunch of new people (Amin, Chee, Zee, WZ [who is now Ou Weiming's girlfriend], Raymond [Mr 3%], Ee Wah, Daniel, Rex and LKL)
  • Saw Audrey May May get married in September 2008 (She's now the proud mother of one)
  • Grew very much closer to Koof, Ra, Jing, Huimin, Janice, Gina, Hailing and to a much lesser extent before he quit the H-monster, Zhong
  • Proposed to my beloved (26 December 2008) at Crowne Plaza Hotel with the invaluable assistance of the people above
  • Celebrated the graduation of my batch (one year after my own) at Peach Garden OCBC Centre on 9 July 2009
  • Attended my first (and last) PwC Fiesta in October 2009
  • Tendered my resignation in the very same month (after seeing Wilson get his Maggie Mee)
  • Left PwC on 6 November 2010 - it was the SPA away day as well
  • Joined G** on 16 November 2010
  • Went for my first overseas trip - Phuket with HER in January 2010
  • Lost a loved one (Ah Ba on 19 March 2010 - exactly 8 years to the day after Ah Ma passed away) - a very painful and sudden bereavement... the gratitude I feel for his care in my formative years spurs me to do the same for his daughter
  • Went for my 2nd trip to Bintan with HER in April 2010
  • Went for our wedding photoshoot on 20 May 2010
  • Bought our matrimonial bed and sofa set from Sealy and a local retailer on 21 May 2010
This has been a turbulent 2 years for me, and the only constant has been HER steadfast support, as has always been through these 9-plus years. For that, I will have no one else but HER as my wife. I'm looking forward to our photos and 18 September 2010, the day that we will be legally man and wife.

Pictures are available on Facebook, and I know that these memories, however painful, will be an indelible part of my journey through life.

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Sunday, July 13, 2008

Shanghai Day 6

Day 6 was better - we resolved to forget the disappointments of the previous day and set out afresh for Qipu Road and breakfast. It's always well and good to have something to fall back on in a land of foreign food - the ever-trusty Macdonalds and their ubiquitous items on the menu.















Qipu was relatively less crowded at 10am, and we took 4 leisurely hours to stroll through the 2 main malls and select our purchases. I got a pair of "Teva" sandals for 80 RMB, which was a relative steal considering that the other shops were unwilling to let it go for anything less than 100RMB. It's my current favorite.














We went to Ajisen's for lunch and chanced upon a gem of a poster.

























After depositing our purchases at our hotel, we took the metro to the French Concession, where the Lyceum Theatre was sited in order to catch the evening version of the Shanghai Acrobatic Troupe's performance. It was yet another disappointment, as they had cancelled the performance.


























We then walked along Huaihai Road to check out the Zara sales at the 2 outlets lining the road.

























We ended the trip off with a meal at a mall along the road and some Portuguese fare - if you consider Cafe de Coral to be anything like that.

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Shanghai Days 4 & 5

Day 4 was a day of meeting with people - we met with Zhong's Dragonboat teammate and Celest's Jun.














We visited the Shanghai Science and Technology Museum - well, we sort of viewed it from the outside - our main motive was to pay a visit to the various dodgy retailers at the basement of the metro station.














That was where Meng found his first retail love - a pair of Lacoste shoes that he did not end up buying. We spent much of the day haggling about prices with the vendors and did not do very much at all.














Ditto day 5. Which was a horrible day with rain and a fruitless search for the elusive Factory Outlet that had us running all over suburban Shanghai. Wet socks and a truncated Qipu Road best summarizes that forgettable day.




























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Thursday, July 03, 2008

Shanghai Day 3

Day 3
Having not booked a ticket to Hangzhou the night before and waking at 5.30am having slept just 3 hours the night before, the Chinese could have forgiven themselves for having seen wasted zombies scurrying around a) People's Square (人民广场), b) the 80,000 People Stadium and c) the Shanghai Indoor Stadium. All for the sake of catching the bus that left at 7am.

We ran around like idiots looking for a semblance of a bus terminus (or any other congregation of the said motor vehicle, which, unfortunately included most traffic junctions) for the first 2 locations. I have not run so much since BMT before. In any case, we were despairing at the negative replies (and misdirections) given by locals strolling in the calm of the morning. It must have been pretty funny to see touristy Chinese who couldn't speak proper Mandarin running off in the wrong directions.














We got to the Shanghai Indoor Stadium at about 720am, and having thought that the bus had already left, we were a dejected lot. In fact, the lady at the counter told us that the bus would be leaving at 845am, and that there were just 3 seats left. That was our very first stroke of luck on the trip. We promptly paid the 248RMB - which was a ripoff, sadly.

























The Hangzhou tour, and Hangzhou itself was a letdown. We rushed from place to place, and although the highlight of the tour was the Xi Hu (西湖) boatride, we never really got close enough to view the 7 scenic locations up close. Not even enough for photography, barring something like Weisheng's DSLR and his humongous lens. Which wouldn't have worked anyway, given that the boat was rocking about and mist obscured pretty much everything from afar.














My main grouses center about the fact that we spent too little time at the 2 locations of interest - Xi Hu and the Ling Yin Temple (灵隐寺) and too much at the commercial silk factory and the place with the tea leaves. We passed by the Yue Wang Temple (岳王庙) without going in to spit on the statue of Qin Kuai (秦桧) for whom the phrase 遗臭万年was coined. And really fulfill the our inner Chinese self - secretly we admired the Chinese ability to hark up a gob of spit and deposit it on the next available tile.














At the Ling Yin Temple, Meng did not go in with us and I suppose I was the only one marvelling at the splendor of the place given that Zhong was very much the freethinker sort. At least he saw fit to dedicate merits to his mother, who was a devout Buddhist. We had the good karma to witness the recital of the afternoon prayers and toured the hall of the 300 arahants, all of whom were unique and intricately carved. The gold Buddha statue in the 大雄宝殿was a sight to behold, and given that it was rude to take photos inside the confines of the 大殿, I managed to just catch the exterior of the hall itself.
















































We boarded the bus back to Shanghai next, and I was very much dissatisfied with the events of the day. A filling meal at our destination made up for part of the disappointment though. Meng and Zhong must have eaten 3 full-sized frogs between them.

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Monday, June 30, 2008

Shanghai Day 2

DAY 2
We woke up to a bright morning and cloudy skies. The incessant drizzle the day before had seemingly disappeared. Meng and Zhong led me in search of their favorite eatery near Zhao'an Hotel where they had also stayed in their trip 4 years ago. To no avail though, as it had closed down and in its place was a suspicious restaurant ("we have no electricity, would you like some porridge?). The street also housed our first street hawker du jour. Who was selling the dough fritters that we so desperately craved, but being the sanitized Singaporeans that we were, we were did not try the stall in fear of a premature end to our culinary exploits.














We headed for the Shanghai Tailor and Fabric Market (or some name to that effect) on the recommendation of Wenshan to have our suits tailored. His resident tailor (Jackson Xue, not TAI) was not in for the day and the lady assistant took our measurements and promised to have them ready in a tailoring feat of 4 days. The ties here were of quality and sold at 10RMB. Needless to say, I bought 3 of them in expectation of my daily requirements at PwC.














We headed across the street on the recommendation of the lady assistant for some lunch, and it was a 130RMB well-spent (considering that we blew 110RMB on the crap dinner the day before).














On a belly filled with good food, we headed for the Yu Gardens and the Cheng Huang Temple located in the historic heart of Shanghai, named (what else) Old Shanghai Street.














Walking into the street, we came across many shops selling the ubiquitous tourist trinkets and tea, and Meng popped into one such store for the first of his purchases - he bought some LongJing Tea for his parents. The XiangPian Tea was appealing, but being the miser that I was, I did not want to buy the tea as yet.














When we reached the doors of the Temple I found out that it was not the Buddhist one that I was expecting (there is a difference) and was quite reluctant to buy the 10RMB admission ticket. Given that Meng was waiting outside, we chose not to enter the compound and miss out on the Yu Garden as well. Remember what I said about being miserly?

























We then headed off to Miser Heaven - Qipu Road. Given that its predecessor, Xiangyang Road had been raided by the relevant authorities not long ago, Qipu Road succeeded the former as a bustling haven for pirates and imitation goods.

The streets were extremely crowded even for a Tuesday, and given the number of locals present, it was obvious that this was a market that catered to native Chinese. We trudged through the crowded malls (particularly the basement levels selling shoes and bags) in search of the ultimate bargain.














One notable fact was that the street hawkers here sold pretty much the same fare - Mutton or squid on giant bamboo sticks (that could potentially qualify as a lethal weapon in Singapore) and large slices of melons that looked fantastically sweet. All these without proper storage and hygiene! Imagine squid and fruits being kept at 23deg throughout the day , staying exposed to the elements and the smog that pervaded Shanghai.














We chanced upon many imitation goods, but the most memorable purchase was Meng's Gongtai shoes, which was the subject of Celest's post. Also, Zhong took the chance to whore himself for the camera, and did the classic Chinese squat which he repeated throughout the trip. Oh, and Meng succeeded in purchasing the pair of shoes at 40RMB, which translates to a mind-boggling 8 buckaroos here in Singapore.














We eyed several other purchases, and were keen to come back nearer the date of our departure. We walked about 2.5 squares (on Koof's map) back to our hotel - which took an agonizing 1 and a half hours. To further complicate matters, Zhong was having a bad stomach, which explains his constipated look as evidenced below:-














Zhong headed back to the hotel in search of a much-needed release and supplemented his diet with a bottle of Po Chai pills from the well-stocked 百宝袋 of Meng's. The two of us had dinner at a restaurant near the hotel and we encountered our most disgusting find just yet - a whole fried turtle that cost 24RMB. We had the pleasure of seeing people spit in the upper-class restaurant, and Meng witnessed firsthand a group of locals eating the turtles and I saw a lady munching on the shell of the aforementioned delicacy. GROSS.














We headed to BarVue at Hyatt on the Bund to meet Claire and Weizheng, and the view from the top was much better than that from the Bund the night before. Meng ordered a 60RMB Hennessy VSOP and we were chuckling at the volume of alcohol within the big wine glass.














In the 2 hours that we spent at the bar, we saw the smog obscure the Pearl Tower twice. which was really quite amazing given the strobe lights flashing from the pearl on top of the tower. It was some dense shit indeed.














Zhong's choice of a raw-ish salad-looking alcoholic concoction did not help his gut much, and we concluded the evening with a group shot.

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Shanghai Prologue and Day 1

The Shanghai trip started off with a bombshell from Koof - not the feminine kind that one would usually associate Koof with but the news that he'd injured his eye (again) in a freak ricochet of the ball whilst playing cage.

The 3 of us (Me, Zhong & Meng) trooped to the airport knowing that we had to make the most of what was left of the initial gang - with Jing backing out after deciding on Shanghai as the trip location (in consideration of a potential rendezvous with Renee) and the freak accident with Koof.

Before the plane had even gotten off the ground, I had spent a total of 103 bucks buying some 7 cosmetic articles for HER mom. And Meng spent half that amount on a nice-ish Braun Buffel wallet going at a discount after my spree. We got on the relatively empty China Eastern flight MU546 which eventually proved to be a blessing in disguise, as my ample bulk was given sufficient space in which to maneuver.

On bored (sic) the plane, Zhong and Meng amused themselves with the Pro Evolution Soccer on Koof's PSP and mine, whilst I amused myself with my digital camera taking photos that looked like this:

Which was essentially crap.

Anyhow, our arrival in Shanghai was a reflection of our luck (or so we thought at first). Our plane was rerouted from its original destination at Pudong airport to Hongqiao Airport which was further away from the coast. However, I was convinced on the necessity of the move after seeing the fog sweep in from the coastal areas. In addition, the cab fare from Hongqiao to our hotel in Hengtong Road was a measly 60RMB, in comparison with the 160RMB fare that me and Meng would later incur on our way to Pudong Airport on the return leg.














DAY 1

Our first day in Shanghai saw us make a beeline for the tourist district of Nanjing East Road immediately after we'd dumped our belongings in the hotel room, which was very comfortable given the incredibly low price of 300RMB that we were paying per night. The entrance to the metro (Hanzhong Road) was right beside the hotel, and it took a short 15 minutes for the journey to the East (Nanjing Road). Nanjing Road is the likeness of Orchard Road, with prices to match for the similarity as well.














We found a dark alley behind Nanjing Road and ate our first meal of the trip. I had earlier rejected Zhong's suggestion that we eat at CoCo Curry in consideration of the "watery curry" and Meng not seemingly interested (he was at the next junction looking out for more eateries). We found a dingy little shophouse that served authentic Shanghainese fare (or so they claimed). We ordered a plate of unknown meat (and possibly tripe), a plate of unknown greens, a plate of mutton (which turned out to be 20% raw) and 杂浆面 for me and Zhong. After pushing about the noodles in our bowl and flipping around looking for the less-rare portions of mutton, we decided to give up on the meal and head for the Bund.

The Bund was filled with people even on a Monday evening, with peddlers, touts and ice-cream sellers having a field day selling their wares to the crowd. Even though the view from the Bund could not rival that of Hongkong back when I visited it in '05, the skyscrapers and illuminated buildings signified China's progress as a capitalistic member of the global society. And with that, our day ended with a walk back to the metro from the Bund.

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Monday, April 21, 2008

Sometimes.

There's school tomorrow. Plenty of papers to be marked.

It's 3am and I've not gotten to sleep after an hour of trying.

Something just bugs me. The uncertainty that plagues just about everything in my life.

I'm a creature of continuity. I take to uncertainty like how SHE takes to all things electronic.

The uncertainty that surrounds my choice of career, my grades and my finances.

Why do I always feel that I've underachieved after all these years?


I know the feeling all too well.

Too often, it hits me like a speeding MRT train.

The feeling of inadequacy. Of being a misfit. An outcast.

Resignation has replaced optimism a long time ago. 13 years ago, to be exact.

Achievements have always preceded a fall.

I'm weary from picking myself up all the time.

I am supposed to have it all.

A doting girlfriend, a bunch of brothers that have stood by me these years.

Why do I always feel a need to prove my capability?

But right now, I'm standing on the edge of gainful employment.

What once seemed infinitely possible, there now exists just one choice.

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Wednesday, August 30, 2006

We were young.

Anyone can name all the vids in this compilation?
OMG how I miss those days of yore...


The Visionaries: Fired my imagination.


Ever wondered why old men wear their singlets inside their biz shirts? Ask the Centurions.


M.A.S.K.


Starcom!


Finally, Voltron... With the corny "Form feet and legs... Form arms and torso... Now form THE HEAD.. Roar... Roar... Roar... Rawwwwwwwrrrrrrrr...."


And I realize that I had loads of toys from this era. Thanks Mom and Dad!

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Friday, August 04, 2006

Class-ified

Was out buying BBQ stuff for Sat with two of my 22/00 classmates. Zhihong and Weiming.
I've never really had a class that got along well. 6A in SGPS was incredibly competitive and diverse; 2H was too busy condemning me and I was too aloof and unsporting to mix around in 4K.

22/00 brought about a chance- a chance for me to make a difference. Especially with a supportive form tutor and links to the 3-5 cliques that defined class relations. Alas, the fundamental differences proved too wide to bridge, but relations were at least cordial.

And so, 5th August sees a reunion of the boys and girls- now men and women of 22/00, and i sure hope that contact at least can be maintained. Guys, remember the Physics lessons with 矮仔 Lim, Cheng and his leg-opening routine, P.E. lessons with 沈生, Maths remedial (where I was an ever-present fixture) with Mr Low and Econs with Ms Leong.

Remember it all, for despite the sadness/happiness that marked our days in TJC, within and without, it remains our common, indelible past.

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Wednesday, July 05, 2006

Work Work....

This blog has been dormant for long enough. Been working the past few days. First at D** issuing IPO prospectuses (prospectii??) to the general public. I mean GENERAL public. The cleaner uncle, the office ladies and a man on a bike. But then again, my experience at Central Singapore CDC told me not to judge a person's wealth by their outward image.

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There was this dishevelled old man that hobbled into the CDC for financial and job assistance. He was something like 78, and stick-thin. The poor old man kept staring at the box of cream crackers on the Suzie's shelf, and his trembling fingers accepted the mug of steaming milo with gratitude. We gave him a stack. And yes i mean a stack of crackers. Something like 10. He gobbled it down.
And we gave him 10 more. And yeaps it went down too. We were astounded at his seemingly insatiable appetite. Later on, Sharon went to buy some noodles for him.

And soon after, Doreen arrived with the old man's biodata, as well as bank details.

He had $16,000 in his account. SIXTEEN FREAKING K CRISP SGD. And his answer to our queries was poetic.

"为了养老。。。"

Doreen was aghast.

"Uncle, 你现在不老几时才算老?"

Needless to say, he did not get the grant. Means testing, revisited.
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The D** job saw me meet up with incredibly full-of-themselves people.
So did my next job. One with Meng.

Its a wonder how such people survive in the working world.

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